Does My Veil Have to Match My Dress?
Photography: Anne Letournel & Toria Frances
Every detail of your wedding feels so significant! You’ve spent countless hours selecting suppliers, from the flowers to the table settings. But for many brides, one of the most important decisions is choosing the perfect dress—and the veil that will complement it. As a wedding veil design studio one of the questions we are asked most is: Does my veil have to match my dress? And even more so, How do I make sure my veil matches my dress? The answer, isn’t an exact science but there are plenty of notes and helpful tips we can give you to make sure you consider every detail and find the perfect wedding veil.
Traditionally, the veil is considered an extension of your dress. It’s commonly accepted that both should blend seamlessly together to create a cohesive bridal look. However, modern wedding style has evolved to create new ways to match your veil to your dress! Personalising your veil to your bridal look by opting for a veil that reflects your individuality but doesn’t necessarily match—your dress can add visual interest and allow you to express your personal style.
For example, pairing a sleek, minimalist dress with a statement veil featuring lace or beadwork can create a striking contrast. Similarly, a colourful or embroidered veil can bring a pop of personality to a more classic gown.
The key is balance: while your veil doesn’t have to match your dress exactly, it should still feel harmonious. At Natasha Nicole Studio we are experts at ensuring your veil pairs beautifully with your dress.
Read on for specific tips to think about or discuss with your bridal boutique or designer.
Photography Meg Mari
Colour Coordination
While your veil doesn’t need to be the exact shade of your dress, it should be in the same colour family. Generally, traditional wedding dresses fall into a category of ivory/off white or white/pure white. If you’ve chosen an ivory dress, be mindful to select a veil that is a complementary shade of ivory or off-white. Pairing a white veil with an off-white dress may not seem that much of a colour clash, but when the fabrics are paired together in natural light, you will notice a distinct difference in colour. When selecting your wedding dress, make sure to note down the colour in the description or ask your boutique – this way if you do choose to source a veil from another designer, you can be sure that you have the correct information and that the veil will be a perfect match.
Of course, you may purposefully want to wear a veil that is a different shade to your wedding dress! If choosing a colourful veil, ask for swatches of the fabric to compare to your gown. This will ensure that the colour is a match in terms of temperature. Colours can be warm or cool and the subtle difference will make your dress and veil look seamless.
As a little extra note, if your dress has layers of lace or embroidery in various shades, make sure to compare your veil fabric to the overall effect when the dress fabrics are layered together. Matching the veil fabric to the lace without taking into account the dress underlayer may change the colour veil you need.
Fabric Choice
The fabric of your veil plays such a large role in the overall look! All veil fabrics aren’t made the same. Bridal Illusion tulle is the most common choice, but there are many other types of tulle available, such as extra-sheer tulle, silk tulle or structured tulle.
If your dress has intricate lace details, you might choose a veil with similar lace accents or edging. For a more detailed look you could work with a veil designer to recreate parts of the lace on your dress and echo these in embroidery to pair perfectly with your gown.
Think of the style of your wedding dress. If your dress fabric is soft and flowing with little structure you may want to choose a similarly very soft, flowing tulle! However, if you are wearing a ball gown, or dress with a large train, consider a fabric that will hold its shape and match the width and volume of your dress.
Length and Style
The length and style of your veil should complement the silhouette of your dress. A cathedral veil works beautifully with long, formal gowns, while shorter veils or birdcage veils look great with tea-length or vintage-inspired dresses. You can also use your veil to play with proportions—an extravagant, extra long veil can add drama to a simple dress, while shorter veils such as elbow or fingertip length can add something delicate and not overwhelm a dress that is heavily embellished. Take note of the shape of your dress and look for veil inspiration using your dress shape as a guide to help you find your perfect veil look.
Embellishments and Accessories
Think about how your veil will interact with the other elements of your bridal look, like jewellery and hair accessories. If your dress has intricate beading or embroidery, you can either choose to mimic this in your veil for a seamless look or pair with a plain veil to keep the focus on your dress.
Think of how your whole bridal look will interact with your venue, accessories and flowers! Whilst this may seem like a lot, you have spent time carefully choosing each detail. Bringing in colours, textures or fabrics that echo your wedding aesthetic will bring everything together naturally and is a simple way to make your wedding look elegant and cohesive.
Whether or not your veil matches your dress is entirely up to you. There’s no right or wrong answer—it’s all about your personal style. If a perfectly matched veil with complementary lace or embroidery in the same shade as your dress makes you feel elegant, that will work perfectly for you. But if you’d prefer something more unique or unexpected, let your creativity shine and choose a veil colour or length that feels truly you.
Ultimately, your wedding day is a celebration of your love and your personal style. Whether your veil blends seamlessly with your dress or offers a touch of contrast, as long as you feel beautiful and confident, you’ve made the right choice.
Looking for more wedding veil tips?
Natasha Nicole Studio is a luxury wedding brand, creating unique heirloom veils for brides all over the world. Take a look at our other expert guides for more guidance when choosing a wedding veil! How to Choose the Perfect Length Wedding Veil for Your Gown
Want to chat veils or consider having your own unique wedding veil?
Send the studio a message! We create all kinds of veils to match your wedding dress, including plain veils, silk veils, embroidered veils and all other embellishments. We are specialists in embroidery and interweaving beautiful symbols and messages into wedding veils. If this sounds like you, we would love to hear your thoughts!